Is the Work You Love Already in the Job You Have?

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Do you have a good job and a decent salary, but feel dissatisfied and in need of a career change? Do you dream of breaking out of your current job to do the work you love? Do you already have a sideline business – or desperately want to start one? If so, this will soon be your website of choice for ideas, tools and action plans to help you find the work you love while still supporting yourself in the job you have.

Why I Started this Site

I had a conversation with a coworker this week that helped me fine tune my ideas for this website into a laser beam directed at those of you who say “Yes” to the questions above. I started this blog because I had been going through the above dilemmas. To some degree, I still am. I’ve made some headway and I wanted to share what I’ve learned with others about career change, finding your strengths, and doing work you love. That’s what started this, that’s the core reason.

What I found was a lot of information about how to quit your job and become successful doing something else. A few people make an instant career change and find success. Some do it and fail, and it destroys their hope to the point that they don’t ever dare to try again. Many more people never try at all, because they have an all or nothing mentality. They believe something like, “I want to do [my passion] but I can’t give up my job because [it pays the bills, my spouse would kill me, my parents would disown me, etc, etc, etc].” Some people discover that the work they love was theirs for the taking all along, even in the job they already have.

This blog is for everyone who wants to make a change, and it will talk you through how to transition – in big ways, in little incremental ways, in ways that work for you.

My Goal

I want to help you find your strengths, develop your talents, and communicate what you bring to the table that makes you unique. For some, that’s a long process and it needs to happen gradually. That’s okay – there are many people that are going down the same path. Others already know the career change for them, they just need someone to cheer them to victory. Some don’t have any idea where to start, which is where I was not too long ago.

It’s so important for you to find your spark, your motivation, your joy. Life is too short to feel depressed, anxious, and drained all the time. Or worse, to not know how you feel – a topic I plan to address this week. Hopefully, you will find some parts of this site that speak to you, inspire you, or make you think.

When I was going through it, I wasn’t sure where to start and I muddled my way through. Doing it that way takes longer. It’s a tougher fight. I needed to read or listen or talk with someone who had been there and could tell me what they learned and how. Not to be the master, the guru, the director of my life – but to be my friend through the process and share what they learned.

If I can do that for one person through this site, it will be worth it.

Your Turn

How can I help? Let me know in the comments.

  • http://twitter.com/CraftingSpirit Crafting Spirit

    My current job sucks me dry. I have bruises from dealing with a patient last week and emotionally drained from trying to calm her down from her psychosis – I'm a nurse. I know I should be grateful for my job – and I am but I. am. so. tired.

    As far as my spark, my motivation and my joy? I am so sparky I jump from love to love to love – I am cursed with being multi-talented: artist, nurse, coach, mother, graphic designer, seamstress (I'm sewing today). I am not shy about having talent. I do. The only thing lacking these days is picking a path and sticking with it until it rewards me. And it's not a matter of focus. I'm tired of people telling me to focus…

    uh, thanks for the post – I sort of get carried away. Can you help me blend them all into one big fat happy existence? Oh, and nursing WAS my career change: graphic designer and art director for 27+ years…

    btw, you have an amazingly open and friendly face.

  • http://www.engageyourstrengths.com wdaunheimer

    Pamela, thanks for the compliment and the comment! I feel for you. I was there a few years back. At least you know what drains you about your current job – some of us started from further back! Nursing is a very tough career. My mother is a nurse and worked with oncology patients for many years. Eventually, she went into running clinical research studies. I don't know if it was because she was so drained, but perhaps.

    It sounds to me like there are two things you might try as first steps. These aren't an “instant fix” – but so little in life is if you truly want to make a change. I'm in it for the long haul, and hopefully future posts will help through your journey.

    First, what situations or people give back to you and replenish you? What makes you feel like a million bucks? Sleep? Connecting with someone? Time alone? Experiencing nature? Many people who care for others feel terribly guilty about doing “selfish” things for themselves, and end up burning themselves out. Give yourself permission to replenish yourself when you need it – and then do it when you feel burnt out!

    Second, I'd like to recommend taking some index cards to work this week – the colored ones if you can find them (if not, write on them with colored pens). When you have times at work that you feel totally absorbed with what your doing and time flies by, write what you were doing on a green card (or with green pen). When you feel drained, upset, or down, write it on a red card (or with red pen). Don't try to capture all activities, and don't bother with those that do not provoke a strong emotion. Only capture the ones that exhilarate you and the ones that drain you.

    Then come back. Based on your question, I'm going to write a post about what to do with the cards once you've written your activities down.

    Willing to give it a shot?

  • http://twitter.com/CraftingSpirit Crafting Spirit

    Trying the cards this weekend (nights, weekends) so I will let you know – I LOVE index cards and I totally love colored pens.

    So, the answer is “yes, I will give it a try…”